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03.19.2014 No Comments

Invitation to SoulJazz

We've learned the hard way not to tell folks about a program that's not actually ready, so we've kept our mouths shut. But we're definitely ready now. We've run two very successful "beta tests" of our 6 session Webinar and our third will start May 4. Please join us!


Why SoulJazz.  The program

responds to a need we have

heard a lot:  people have discovered some level of spiritual openness but find it hard to weave that depth and spaciousness into their everyday lives and relationships. Many feel unable to create deeper, more soulful (i.e intimate) connections with friends or loved ones.  


We can develop enlightenment, why not enlightened relationships?


In answer we've developed the SoulJazz program.  It's designed to help folks listen into the depths, and learn the secret to making deeper, more intimate contact. Folks who have taken the program have told us that even though a webinar, SoulJazz gives them know-how and tools to make the kind of contact they wanted.


Developing Intimacy:  Many have told us that they know they want a different way to be with others but don't know how to bring it about. Others have told us they're afraid they'll offer something of themselves, only to be hurt when others don't reciprocate. 


We answer questions like these by providing tools, concepts and even day to day practices that address these fears and actually help.


Our invitation:  We’re looking for just a few folks to participate in a Beta Test of our online Webinar course. Two hours, Sunday Evenings, for six weeks, starting May 4. There will be private conversations (i.e. webcam face to face) conversations, group explorations, lectures, truly helpful homework and lots of tools for weaving more intimacy into your daily life.  Post course support is also available.


Although the program will eventually cost about $300, this Beta Test will be only $150; and if you complete the program, which includes giving us some feedback, we will be happy to refund your investment, no questions asked.  


Though developed by a team of Forge Guild members, the course has been refined and is co-facilitated by Toronto Psychotherapist Kerry Gordon and Professor and Forge Founder Robert Forman.  


Interested?  Just drop a note to Forman@TheForge.org or check out our website, www.SoulJazzOnline.com  

12.16.2012 No Comments

Guns DO kill people!

I tend to use these columns to reflect on the life of growth and the development of spirit.  But today I want to reflect on this horrific event in Conneticut. 

Ross Duthat reflected in the NY Times that there is evil in the world and that no town is immune from it. He writes of the loss of innocence and the existence of violence, cruelty and meaningless attacks.   Fair enough.  He's hinting at the common NRA and Republican trope:  guns don't kill people, people — crazy, mad, evil people — kill people.

What he didn't mention, what this Republican trope tries to ignore, is that guns don't kill people, but they sure as hell help.

About a month ago, a crazy, mad, evil man went the kind of bezerk that led Adam Lanza to stage this week's attack in Newtown, Connecticut. 

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09.25.2012 1 Comment

On Being A Surd

I’ve been gone awhile. Been out on the road. Book talks, seminars, travels. I’ve learned a couple of things, being a roadie.

First, take a hobby. Book talks happen in the evenings. You get a lot of down time in the days. I was glad to have my guitar and some practice tapes.

Second, food on the road is, at best, digestively unpredictable. Take, ahem, aides for the large colon.

Third, speak as much truth as you are able. The more I could drop into the real and invite others there, the better were the talks. People know it when you speak of what is really so, and a kind of intimacy comes over an audience when you do. For me, it generally concerned how our fantasies – my own fantasies – get in the way of living a fully present life. Or what it means to be spiritual today. Or the ambiguity of my commitment to meditation, and what it is to be on a spiritual path. The more I could descend into what is really at issue, where I actually stand in my own way, where my dreams block my path, the more people were with me.

Though I dropped deeper into my soul when I gave such talks, it wasn’t just me. …

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06.15.2012 2 Comments

The Buddha in London-towne

I'm in London this week and around it next, giving a series of book talks and interviews about Enlightenment Ain't.   I've only been here a couple of days, but find myself struck with the energy of the place, and its multi-culturalism.  Its almost odd to hear British English being spoken, its so rare, but maybe that's because i ride the tubes and the busses.

There’s a healthy liveliness in the city that you’d like.  I suppose I have to admit I find it somewhat exciting, mostly because it seems energetic.

I stumbled across a huge Buddha pagoda here…

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04.24.2012 1 Comment

The Mark of Truth on a Hike

In part to celebrate my recovery from the heart attack, I took a few days off last week to hike the Appalacian Trail.  It is such a joy to have a body that works again! I had no idea how much I had slowed down!

Aside from the “Hey there’s”, on my hike I had only about half a dozen conversations.  Most are of the “have you been to such and such a mountain” or the “how can you tell the turnoff to the …” variety. 

Except for one.  When a thirty something overtook me, he asked me how long I’d been out.  “I'm on my second day." I told him.  "I hike for an hour or two, then I write, then hike another hour or so,” I said happily. I was enjoying the rhythm I'd discovered. 

“Oh, what are you writing?” he asked. 

“Ruminations, mostly.  Like a journal. Mostly I find myself thinking about how to bring something of the depths of life into the everyday.” 

He focused in on me with a nearly imperceptable shudder, recognizing, I think, that I had just offered out something real, like a gift.  With a querulous smile, he looked me in the eye.

“Now, how do you do that?”

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03.1.2012 9 Comments

After the Heart Attack, Who?

About a third or more of people who have bypass surgery, I've heard, struggle with depression. About 5 weeks after having that heart bypass operation, it hit me. Yup, I've become a proud member of that lucky third! 

Now, I am something of an expert on depression, having been clinically depressed for about 3 years in college, and having come out of it, I like to think, wiser. Depression was easily one of my greatest teachers: I discovered  then that I wasn't who I thought I was, and from it came the life long challenge to live in deeper integrity. 

So a bout of depression after this operation? Ach, old hat!  All I need to do is ask, what am I not owning up to in myself?  Piece o' cake!  

Hardly!!  But I could sense that the question haunting me was, do I want to get back into my old life now? I think part of an answer hit me last night; so this epiphany is a day old: I've been thinking about my life all wrong! 

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02.10.2012 11 Comments

Lessons from a Heart Attack

As you have probably noticed, I have been offline for about a month now.  In case you haven't heard, I had a heart attack and a quadruple bypass operation.  I know it's a shoddy reason for being offline, but hey, its the only one I've got! 

Thank you to all the folks that have sent support, love, concern, prayers, cards and flowers.  It makes a difference, it really does, on the spirits and healing process.  I feel well cared for, well loved. And perhaps as a result, my healing has been reasonably quick and easy. 

Many have asked me about insights or reactions from a brush with death.  I'm afraid I don't have anything brilliant to tell you. 

But I have have one suggestive insight from that nearly-other-side…

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01.4.2012 1 Comment

40 Year Anniversary

Today is the 40 year anniversary of the final zlooping of those strange tubes in the back of my head. 

If you don't know what I'm talking about, read the book!  (Sorry, a too-easy plug, eh?)

It's a wierd thing to celebrate, I must say, but a bookstore in England asked me for anniversary dates, and came up with this one. Does one sing happy anniversary to silence … in silence?    Candles maybe:  "true light to true light" as the Nicean creed has it? 

What it does get me thinking about though is the effect of something like this.  What it was was the beginning of a life.

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12.15.2011 No Comments

Invitation to Jazz in the Soul

Merry Christmas.  Though I'm not a Christian, I love the holiday.  I see it as the celebration of the possibility of the birth of the infinite  in us.  So that we have the capacity to become "fully God and fully Man" as the Nicean creed has it.  It is in that spirit I say, hey, have a wonderful Christmas!

You may have heard me say, either in talks, radio shows or in print, that the key to building a life with the same openness that comes with spiritual depth, is by living with deep and searching truth.  Not the truth about someone else, but about us, who we are what we're doing, where we struggle and discover.

the Farmhouse at Rowe

Truth telling is the key to building a life of deep authenticity and connection — with self and others. 

You may have also ve heard me say that we teach people how to do this in the Soul Jazz program.  Well, the long wait is finally over. We're now opening enrollment for the first ever public Soul Jazz weekend.

Have you contacted a deeper reality, sometimes found the infinite?  Learn to weave it into your everyday life, at home and at work.

This is the real challenge of the spiritual life, isn't it? 

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12.8.2011 No Comments

Thanks for Playing, and for wondering


I just wanted to say thanks for all the people at Goodreads.com who entered the contest to receive a free copy of Enlightenment Ain't What It's Cracked Up To Be. 

The thing that I was most gratified to see is that of the 570 who entered the contest (570!!) some 71 put it on their "to read list." That tells me that there is real interest in the question that stands at the heart of the book:  what actually is enlightenment and does it live up to its hype?  And if it doesn't, then what are we really after in life?  Or, as Dr. Trahan put it, "hat most significant of human questions: What does a "good life" look like? And perhaps more pressing: What does a "good life" look like here and now?"  

So its gratifying to see the interest in this.

I want all to know that we'll cook up a Q & A period on Goodreads about the book, about life, or whatever people want to kick around, next month, after folks have had a chance to read the thing.  I for one look forward to that! 

If you're not signed up for Goodreads, you should.  It's the social network for readers and authors, and a good place to hang.  www.Goodreads.com